Sunday
Apr292012

HumpNight: College Night!

This Wednesday, HumpNight is back in Old Town Fairfax at The Old Firestation #3!  Join us on the second floor for music, games, food/drinks and party hard with Fairfax Pride!  And it's our College Night, so 18 to enter, 21 to drink! We'll get started at 8pm!

3988 University Dr, Fairfax, VA 22030

RSVP on Facebook!

Thursday
Apr052012

Next Week - HumpNight and Gaybors - Karaoke and Safe-Sex-Kit Packing Party for NOVAM!

First of all, thank you to EVERYONE that came out last night for our Fairfax HumpNight celebrating GMU's LGBTQ Week!  Don't miss their Drag Show on Friday!  Pictures will be posted soon - it was wonderful meeting so many students and fresh faces!

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Fairfax Pride's Karaoke HumpNight on April 11th is also a Gaybors CONDOM PACKING PARTY! NOVAM needs your help packing condom kits (condoms, lube and condom information) to be distributed in our area!

Join us at Kalypso's in Reston and help us do our part to promote safe sex and a healthy lifestyle in our area!  1617 Washington PlazaReston, VA 20190

Fairfax Pride proudly supports the mission of NOVAM to educate the community about HIV/AIDS, to combat the fear, prejudice, and complacency that surround the disease, and to provide direct services to meet the needs of those who are living with HIV/AIDS.

Come pack a few kits, have some food, drink some drinks, and sing some songs!


Check out the facebook event here!

Tuesday
Apr032012

Tomorrow - HumpNight is a GMU Pride Party!

Tomorrow night, Fairfax Pride and GMU's LGBTQ Pride Week come together (unofficially) for a HumpNight COLLEGE NIGHT at The Old Firehouse #3 in Old Town Fairfax!

18+ to enter | 21+ to drink | NO COVER!

There will be games and prizes!  Come show your pride on The Old Firehouse's private second floor, which they've generously donated to us!

CHECK OUT THE FACEBOOK EVENT HERE

Fairfax Pride proudly supports the GMU LGBTQ community during their Pride Week 2012!  Check out the Pride Week events on GMU's LGBTQ Resources website!

Tuesday
Apr032012

Want a vintage bag that'll help a distant LGBT neighbor get back on his feet? Please read.

There is a pretty spectacular story coming out of Minnesota that I want to share with you - bare with me; I think a lot of you would be happy to help out!
I've copied the article, written by Gail Rosenblum from the Star Tribune, here
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"Stay-C Kent looked up one morning at his regular Minneapolis Dunn Bros. and no longer saw a pile of burlap coffee bags.  He saw his future.

"Do you sell those?" Kent asked, pointing to the boldly colored woven sacks used to transport beans. "Nope," the barista said. "We give them away. Take as many as you want."

Since that fortuitous exchange just months ago, the "Design House of Stay-C Kent" has created nearly 100 burlap book and shoulder bags, colorfully lined, beautifully sewn and accented with sturdy, stylish hardware. His effort is all the more impressive considering the Design House of Stay-C Kent is one small room at Minneapolis' St. Stephen's Shelter.

"I do hate the word homeless," said Kent, 42, a former high-end hair stylist and gifted tailor who hopes to move into his own place soon.

"There's such a stigma. But I am at one of the best locations for transitional housing. Several of my buddies on the street call me their role model."

He's proud of the title but more grateful for the generosity of friends and strangers helping him start a business under unusual constraints, namely no money and limited work space. A woman selling her serger sewing machine on Craigslist donated it to Kent after hearing his story. A former salon client invited Kent over for dinner and confidence-building. A Web designer created Kent's website for free. Project for Pride in Living designed his business cards.

And a young homeowner offered up his big dining room table to Kent twice weekly so the artist can sew in comfort and sunlight. "Even at this point," Kent said, "I have to step back sometimes and say, 'Wow.'"

Kent grew up on a farm in tiny Sebeka, Minn., one of six kids raised by his mother who was widowed when he was 9 months old. "I learned how to work hard at a very young age," he said.

Ever-creative, he changed the spelling of his name from Stacy to Stay-C, and attended beauty school in St. Cloud. He styled at many high-end Twin Cities salons for 25 years, where clients "would easily drop $200. It was a great living."

As the economy tanked, clients began spacing out appointments to eight or 10 weeks instead of four or six, which meant a hit of as much as $400 per client per year. Health issues caused further trouble until Kent, always "pressed and dressed," lost his job and couldn't make rent payments. He slept on friends' couches for many weeks, then bounced from one homeless shelter to another.

"I am a new face of homelessness," he said one day last month, dressed in a sporty, hand-me-down black cap and herringbone turtleneck. "It can happen to anyone."

Because St. Stephen's residents must vacate daily until 3 p.m., Kent quickly developed routines. Mornings were spent collecting sacks from Dunn Bros., as well as Peace Coffee and the Boiler Room. He shopped free stores for plaid skirts and shirts to convert into the bags' linings.

Late in the day, he'd return to the shelter and sew well into the night -- sometimes too well. After one particular burst of energy, in which Kent cut and sewed 23 bags until 2 a.m., his roommates made a request: "Don't sew so late."

But St. Stephen's has been tremendously supportive, he said, including lending him a sewing machine.

One Sunday morning in January, Kent walked through the St. Stephen's breakfast line and heard a familiar voice. It was Lisa Stitzel, a former salon client, who was serving food with her 12-year-old daughter, Camille, as part of Temple Israel's outreach.

"I had a brief moment of wanting to vanish," Kent said. Stitzel hugged him. She said he looked good. "It kinda broke me up," he said.

Stitzel, who works for an ad agency, invited Kent over for a home-cooked meal with her family. He brought sample bags, which were a hit with Camille and her big sister, Olivia.

Stitzel called her work colleague, Matthew Amundson, who designed Kent's website for free (www.stayckent.com). A St. Stephen's volunteer connected Kent to Joe Kruse, 23, a University of Minnesota American studies graduate who lives in "Rye House," a hospitality house in Minneapolis that offers rooms to homeless folks and free meals once a week.

"We love having him," Kruse said of Kent.

With a reliable workspace, Kent can sew eight to 10 bags a day. He's selling them by word-of-mouth and onwww.etsy.com for $30 and $40. Already bags are heading to the East Coast and as far away as London. He hopes to sell enough soon to pay his first month's rent.

"As soon as I get out of my situation and I am more stable, I see myself as an advocate working with homeless people," Kent said. "Once I have a place to call my own, it will be much better."

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My sister is spending part of her summer in a community/catholic worker house as a volunteer (she's a stellar person and activist) - she will actually be living with Sta-C for a few weeks (apparently the shelter's conditions were pretty bad).
She's asked me to spread the word, and I love the bags - consider buying one by clicking here and visiting his website
If you do end up buying a bag, take a picture with it when it comes in and send to fairfaxpride@gmail.com!
Here's an image of the burlap bags and one of the end results - how great are they?!?!
Thanks!
Brian
Brian P Reach
President, Fairfax Pride
Tuesday
Mar272012

HumpNight Arlington - Sushi Rock in Courthouse

HumpNight is back on the metro this week, in Arlington at Sushi Rock!  A short walk from the Courthouse metro stop, Sushi Rock has drink specials for us, delicious food (like, really delicious) - and a portion of all proceeds go to Fairfax Pride!  Don't miss this great chance to meet people in your community!

Check out the facebook event here!

Also, be sure to 'like' the new Fairfax Pride page!

 

Friday
Mar162012

This Wednesday - Humpnight Game Night and Bar Pong Competition!

Join Fairfax Pride this Wednesday in Falls Church / Merrifield and show us your Bar Pong skills!  The winning duo will receive $50 from Fairfax Pride!  We'll be showing up at Velocity 5 Falls Church at 8pm; Competition starts at 9!  No entry fee, no cover!